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Playing the Love Game

Curious. Aren't you? Thats what today's younger generation do when they hear the word LOVE.
Are you 20 now , then you might have had an experience or atleast would have seen some love birds around you flapping their wings carelessly and flying together .What do you think about them? Well ,I feel sorry for them. There you go - a straight forward answer .Most of who , get into this are students ,walking on a tricky path with so much work to find out what the future holds in for them.I strongly believe that this love is a very big hinderance in their way. Does your mind say "No, no ...its not true ,there are people who succeed in life with love" ., Yes there are people...but only a few. One can say its the hormones that plays ,but i ask u "Where are your senses?".They do not seem to understand the difference between Friendship and love. I totally go against the saying that "Friendship leads to love".Emotionally unbalanced they take such a decision and the worst part is ,they truly believe that they have found the right one for their life when the very life is unstable right now. In most cases they get smashed into pieces when they realise this, which demotivates a lot .Some say Love is a special feeling , but what good is it when u cant explain or understand it clearly.Love is a wonderful thing but has to be a totally practical and a wise decision. Love , when u know what life is or when your life is stable , is the perfect one , because only then one will be able to take or share responsibilties .There is so much to think about- family,career, responsibility .etc,etc., Love that hurts parents is totally insane because they are more important than anybody else in this world. Being a person who believes in miracles ., i would finally say that Love is a miracle but good only when it happens at the right time, which i believe is only when you get a unique identity for you in the society and when you are able to stand and face the future on your own legs .
LOVE TIES A KNOT HOLDING YOUR LEGS TOGETHER MAKING YOU NOT TO MOVE AHEAD. THIS IS ONLY FOR STUDENTS

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  1. AravindFebruary 5, 2010 at 8:55 PM

    i feel that love and friendship are individualistic decisions. after all why can't good friends stay together for the rest of their lives? It depends on ppl. and No relationship is hard and fast. We always want our parents to be even our friends. So multi-tasking ( :) ) is inherent in all relationships. So if the two decide to go into wedding each other i say 'good luck!'

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  2. UnknownFebruary 6, 2010 at 5:56 PM

    I agree with Aravind! For one thing, all lovers are more friendly than lustful! In fact, its mandatory to be friends before you fall in love! (Love at first sight is crap). I totally agree with you on the parents part...that's the least we can do to them!

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  3. HarikumarFebruary 6, 2010 at 7:17 PM

    Friends can become lovers only when they are stable both emotionally and economically....All i mean to say is that Love when you are studying (dependent) is totally insane.....

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  4. SaravananFebruary 8, 2010 at 7:45 PM

    http://news.oneindia.in/2007/08/05/walking-down-the-aisletowards-divorce-1186291950.html

    http://www.rediff.com/news/2009/feb/12analysing-the-rising-divorce-cases-in-chennai.htm

    Personally i think even most(not all) of the grown-up do understand the concept of being together as one good couple..

    If you could see the links given, i think "Love" is totally insane for grown ups too(not all)

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  5. HemalathaFebruary 17, 2010 at 5:31 PM

    I agree with Hari, u have lots of things to be done this age, love totally ruins your life at this age. Why you want friends to be your lovers, friends are always friends, if you are a true friend, you won't see your friend in a way as your lover,friend is one who honours you, friend is one who supports your decisions, who helps in identifiying which is good or bad, not to become as your lover or life partner. Then, What is the difference between a friend and the rest of the people in the world.

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  6. AravindMarch 10, 2011 at 9:29 PM

    i feel that love and friendship are individualistic decisions. after all why can't good friends stay together for the rest of their lives? It depends on ppl. and No relationship is hard and fast. We always want our parents to be even our friends. So multi-tasking ( :) ) is inherent in all relationships. So if the two decide to go into wedding each other i say 'good luck!'

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  7. SrutiMarch 10, 2011 at 9:29 PM

    I agree with Aravind! For one thing, all lovers are more friendly than lustful! In fact, its mandatory to be friends before you fall in love! (Love at first sight is crap). I totally agree with you on the parents part...that's the least we can do to them!

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